controll your sense of envy

linda@crab

i don't know why, when i say sth with some person( i dislike), most of time i would over-covered what she said. like she said: Oh, i watched the newest movie last night, ate some dilicious dinner with **! my reflection: so what, it's a lont time i'v no watching movie in cinema, since last month. that;s ok!   maybe some vocal accent with a little strong ignoring attitude. after bursting those words, strange thought moved up: why did i speak like that manner! confused for some moment. i don't know why. so i went to my friend for help, asked her why i could do like that, she answered: envy sense, compare unrealistically!   Really, i just have this flection for those people that i don't like.
Could u help me analysis how this condition be?

linda@crab

IMNONARCISSUS: W R U crying,girl?

nothing! thanks for your suggestion

IMNONARCISSUS

linda@crab:

W R U crying,girl?

linda@crab

IMNONARCISSUS: I t's  really hard to control  our emotions.It takes time to behave on rational thought.

linda@crab

Haiena: You may have developed this kind of talking attitude since you were young when you did not understand much. Now you are grown up so you cannot continu

i see! thanks ! i need to change !

IMNONARCISSUS

I t's  really hard to control  our emotions.It takes time to behave on rational thought.

Haiena

You may have developed this kind of talking attitude since you were young when you did not understand much. Now you are grown up so you cannot continue that attitude. You have to force yourself to change. Try to talk in a soft and forgiving tone. People are trying to make you jealous so when you reply in a hard tone, they will think they have succeeded in making you jealous.