The family or the love, which one will you choose?

Mandymeng

From the ancient times, we have the saying that one must choose between loyalty and filial devotion. In the modern times, as the society develops, in our mind, the distance is not an obstacle which cannot be removed, but our parents do not think so. So, when we go out or find a boyfriend or girlfriend who is not in the same province with you will get the opposition from the family. There should be many lovers who are in such a situation. And they do not know how to solve this problem. Raising this topic, just want to help them and me find a better way to deal with such a case.

moonhunglee

You need to ask yourself ,Why you go out of your home town to find a boyfriend or girlfriend ? Many people
have to do so for they are working in the same city , if you move to other city that your partner are working in just for love,  you need to be very familiar with her(him) ,and you need to think about if it deserves,  if your family oppose you,
you need to ask why they oppose you , when you get all the
informations , it is upon your self to make a decision, no body can help you.

freddy24

If you get marry with your GF\BF, then you are a family now!

Raphael

family family family ...no more love

pheidippides

In my opinion, it depends on situation.If you love your family
better than your BF or GF, you should depart him or her.
If you love your BF or GF better than your family. You should keep love until the end.To be honest ,it is difficult to make a decision.

ScorchingSun

Family should be filled with love,or it's nothing but a house filled with strangers.

kinzhang

family ,undoubted...nothing si more vital for me but to be with family ,someone always find out the cherished thing after do something wrong ,try to think a little  while ,who always took cared of you and be with you so long when you from a kid to a adult

Frodo

i  lose the relationship of my ex-girlfriend,cuz we are not the same province .i am confused her parents agree us together when they first see me .but she told me her parents don.t agree two months ago ,i  persuade her several times 。her heart is so cold i can't melt

SharonYin

If it must be choosed , I will choose my family. I believe my parents love me and what they want just I can get happiness.They have experienc, and they know what is my match. Maybe just now I like someone, time goes by, I will found he is not my shoes. The parents will not hurt you, if you insist you must go with someone, they can understand at last, the premise is the guy really be worthy of trusting. I don't stand departing from my parents because of a man. Now I live in another city without my husband, but I am very happy, because he love me , his parents and mine love me. Having parents love and support we will go to the end.

hengryzhu

the question is olny found in our country,in the modern times ,it is not happened in developed country.our parents 's idea have not keep up the development of times.

larrywinner

It is easy to choose, no pain no gains.