孤獨(dú)是否是壞事？ Is the Loneliness a Bad Thing?
According to some social surveys, we can see that theonly child in most Chinese families feels lonely in some ways. Why the onlychild feels lonely? Is loneliness a terrible thing?
從一些社會(huì)調(diào)查中我們可以看到，大部分中國(guó)家庭的獨(dú)生子女在某些方面感到孤獨(dú)。為什么獨(dú)生子女會(huì)感到孤獨(dú)呢？孤獨(dú)是如此可怕的事嗎？
Compared with the western, the Chinese children areshyer in communication, which is a reason to make them lack of friends andcompanies. On the other hand, as the only child in the family, they can’t enjoythe happiness from brother or sister. When they meet some troubles, they haveto deal with them by themselves; they can’t get help from their family fellows.Therefore, compared with the children who have brother or sister, the onlychild would feel lonelier.
與西方國(guó)家相比，中國(guó)孩子在溝通方面更羞澀，這也是致使他們?nèi)狈ε笥押屯榈囊粋€(gè)原因。另一方面，作為家里唯一的孩子，他們不能夠享受有兄弟姐妹的快樂(lè)。當(dāng)遇到困難的時(shí)候，他們必須自己解決；他們不能從家庭成員那里得到幫助。因此，和那些有兄弟姐妹的孩子相比，獨(dú)生子女會(huì)感覺(jué)更孤獨(dú)。(www.yingyuzuowen.cn)
However, is loneliness completely a bad thing?Obviously, the answer is no, because loneliness also can bring something goodfor them. It is reported that the only child possesses more advantages thanother children in personality and in thought.
然而，孤獨(dú)是否完全是件壞事呢？顯然，答案是否定的。因?yàn)楣陋?dú)夜能夠給他們帶來(lái)一些好處。據(jù)報(bào)道，獨(dú)生子女在性格和想法上比其他孩子更有優(yōu)勢(shì)。
Firstly, the only child is more independent in personality.Lacking of help from others, they are used to dealing with all kinds of thingsby themselves as much as possible. Thus, the only child would be moreindependent in life and they can endure more setbacks and pressure. Inaddition, when they leave their parents and start to live alone, they would meetfewer difficulties. But the precondition is that they don’t rely on theirparents deeply.
首先，獨(dú)生子女在性格方面更獨(dú)立。因?yàn)槿鄙賱e人的幫助，他們習(xí)慣盡可能地自己解決各種事情。這樣一來(lái)，獨(dú)生子女在生活上會(huì)更獨(dú)立，而且他們更能承受挫折和壓力。另外，當(dāng)他們離開(kāi)父母獨(dú)自生活的時(shí)候，他們會(huì)遇到更少的困難。但是，前提條件是他們沒(méi)有深深依賴(lài)于父母。
Moreover, theonly child has wider horizon than others. As the only kid in the family, they can enjoy better conditions in lifeor in education, and they have more opportunities to get in touch with freshthings and accept higher education. In this premise, loneliness gives them moretime and space to think after study. As the saying goes, genius is the productof the loneliness. Einstein is a good example. Therefore, on the one hand, theonly child feels lonely. But at the same time, one can enjoy loneliness whenthinking. Loneliness brings more chances to think of meaning about life andfuture.
此外，獨(dú)生子女比其他孩子見(jiàn)識(shí)更廣。因?yàn)樗麄兪羌依镂ㄒ坏男『ⅲ麄冊(cè)谏罨蚪逃舷碛懈玫臈l件，而且他們有更多的機(jī)會(huì)去接觸新鮮事物以及接受更高等的教育。在這一前提下，孤獨(dú)能夠使他們課后有更多的時(shí)間和空間去思考。常言道，天才是寂寞的產(chǎn)物。愛(ài)因斯坦就是一個(gè)很好的例子。因此，一方面獨(dú)生子女會(huì)感到孤獨(dú)，但同時(shí)思考的時(shí)候也能享受孤獨(dú)。孤獨(dú)帶來(lái)給多的機(jī)會(huì)去思考生活的意義和未來(lái)。
In a word, the only child feels lonely but also canget some benefits. Learning to enjoy loneliness, one would be easier to tastethe real life.
總之，獨(dú)生子女會(huì)感覺(jué)孤獨(dú)，但是也能夠得到一些好處。一個(gè)人學(xué)會(huì)享受孤獨(dú)也會(huì)更容易體會(huì)到真正的生活。
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