論挫折 Theory of setbacks
According to The New Oxford Dictionary of English, frustration, by definition, means the feeling of being upset or annoyed, especially because of inability to change or achieve something. Since frustration seems to be a negative feeling, some people may be tempted to think that frustration is bad for people. They believe that constant frustration may cause serious mental problems. People suffering from such psychological problems often resort to violence or suicide, which poses a big threat to the people around them and thus causes instability to the whole society. Others, however, hold a different view. They maintain that it is beneficial to people. It goes side by side with success. It inspires people to overcome hardships and difficulties and achieve the final success. People with this view even go so far as to say that no frustration, no success.
根據(jù)《牛津英語詞典》,沮喪,根據(jù)定義,意味著被難過或生氣的感覺,尤其是因為無法改變或有所成就。因為挫折似乎是一個負(fù)面的感覺,有些人可能會認(rèn)為挫折對人有害。他們認(rèn)為不斷挫折可能會導(dǎo)致嚴(yán)重的心理問題。人遭受這種心理問題往往訴諸暴力或自殺,這對周圍的人構(gòu)成一個巨大的威脅,從而導(dǎo)致不穩(wěn)定整個社會。然而,其他人持有不同的看法。他們認(rèn)為這是對人有益。它與成功。它激勵人們克服困難和困難,取得最后的成功。人這種觀點甚至走這么遠(yuǎn)來說,沒有挫折,沒有成功。
Indeed, we cannot always hope to embrace success and never accept failure. And most importantly, only if we learn from many a failure can we do things better and finally overcome such a bad feeling as frustration. Frustration thus is part of our life experience. In our process of growing up, we may inevitably experience it when confronted with situations that don’t come up to our expectations. It is a test of our courage when it befalls us. If we let it control us, we may fall into the abyss of being inflicted by serious psychological problems. But if we harness it and take it as our source of inspiration, we may ultimately enjoy the glory of success.
事實上,我們不能總是希望擁抱成功,從不接受失敗。最重要的是,只有當(dāng)我們學(xué)習(xí)許多失敗我們能做得更好,最后克服這種不好的感覺沮喪。挫折是我們?nèi)松?jīng)歷的一部分。在我們的成長過程中,我們也不可避免的經(jīng)驗面對情況時,不達(dá)到我們的預(yù)期。這是一個測試當(dāng)它降臨我們頭上,我們的勇氣。如果我們讓它控制我們,我們可能會陷入深淵的造成嚴(yán)重的心理問題。但是如果我們利用它,把它作為我們的靈感的源泉,我們最終可能享受成功的榮耀。
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