一個(gè)復(fù)雜的問題-代溝 A complex problem generation gap
Nowadays,“generation gap”has gradually become a common phenomenon all over the world.Experiencing different time,as a result,causes the difference between parents and children in tastes,the method they deal with problems and values.
This case may more easily happen in teenagers.The reason lies in they are young,they have strong passion for freedom,and they like showing themselves off.Then it is no wonder that arguments often arise between their parents and them,which always make the parents worried.They can hardly figure out what their children are thinking about.Because they wear strange clothes,listen noisy music and even walk around town with tattoos and pierces all over their bodies.Nevertheless,in teenager’eyes,their parents are out of date and conservative.They may talk with their friends more often than their parents.In a word,‘generation gap’is an interminable problem.
Seriously,how to bridge the generation gap?In my opinion,first,show respect.The mutual respect can play an important role in avoiding conflicts.Second,listen more than talk.It’s no doubt that it is a very efficient way to keep the conversation longer.At last,keep humors,this can make the talk friendly.
Despite the fact that parents may be worried about the generation gap between their children and themselves.But as we all know,with time going by,children gradually grow old and ripe.And then they will come to understand their parents.
今天，代溝現(xiàn)象”已經(jīng)漸漸成為全世界的問題了。經(jīng)歷的時(shí)間不同，所以導(dǎo)致父母和兒童之間在品味上的差異，以及處理問題的方法上的差異。
這種情況可以更容易發(fā)生在青少年身上。原因讀他們是年輕的，他們有強(qiáng)烈的激情追求自己的自由，他們想要展現(xiàn)自我。然后，難怪他們和他們的父母之間經(jīng)常出現(xiàn)矛盾爭(zhēng)吵，這總是使他們的父母很擔(dān)心。他們幾乎沒有什么可以明白他們孩子在想什么。因?yàn)樗麄兇┢婀值囊路?，聽嘈雜的音樂和甚至與有紋身的然后全身上下穿著名牌的朋友在城鎮(zhèn)閑逛。然而，在青少年的眼中，他們的父母很保守而且過時(shí)。他們與他們的朋友談話，可能比跟他們的父母談話的更多。用一個(gè)字來形容，代溝就是關(guān)鍵問題。
說真的，如何打破代溝呢？在我看來，第一，要表示尊重。相互尊重可以避免沖突。第二，更多的傾聽。這是毫無疑問的，它是一個(gè)非常有效的來保持談話的時(shí)間的方式。最后，保持幽默感，這可以使談話非常友好。
盡管這一代的父母可能會(huì)擔(dān)心他們的孩子和他們之間的代溝。但我們都知道，隨著時(shí)間的流逝，孩子會(huì)長(zhǎng)大變成熟。然后他們會(huì)明白他們的父母。
本文地址：http://www.hengchuai.cn/writing/gaozhong/3329.html
