關于面子問題About Face
There is an old saying in China“people need face while the trees need skin”，the meaning is that Chinese people pay special attention on the dignity. Loving face is most people’s behavior, so they like to brag, they enjoy being adored by others. About the face problem, I think we should not take it serious, we are not living for other people, we are living for ourselves. The real self-esteem is from our hearts, not from other people. Chinese people like to brag, they brag about their property, hoping that people will respect him. The funny thing is that only the fake successful people will brag, the real one is silent, they keep working hard, the successful career supports their self-esteem. If we want people to respect us, we should show our reality, be nice to them, never brag about ourselves.
在中國有句老話“人要臉樹要皮”，意思是中國人很注重尊嚴問題。愛面子是大多數人的習慣，他們喜歡吹噓，享受被人崇拜。關于面子問題，我認為我們不應該把它看得很重，我們不是為別人而活，是為自己而活。真正的自尊是出于我們的內心，不是看別人。中國人喜歡吹牛，他們夸大自己的財產，希望人們尊重他們。有趣的是只有不成功的人才會吹牛，真正成功的人是沉默的，他們努力工作，事業的成功支撐著他們的自尊。如果我們想要別人尊重我們，我們應該展示我們真實的一面，對人友好，不要吹牛。
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